What are failures? Why people are so prejudice towards failures?
Many people look at failure with a prejudice in their mind. Human has the tentativeness to look at things negatively rather than positively; due to this fact failure has became a taboo word for many. Let us see how a negative person will see failure and how a positive person will see failure.
Let us see how a negative person will answer the questions regarding failure:
Q: What is failure?
A: Failure is a word of taboo.
Q: What do you think about having a friend who has failed?
A: If you are near any person who failed you will fail to.
Q: Have you failed before?
A: I have never failed. Failure? Me? Oh no.
Q: What do you think about people who have failed before?
A: They are lazy. / They are not clever enough. / They are very unlucky, very bad
omen.
Q: In conclusion is failure good or bad?
A: Of course it is bad. No doubt of it. Only failures say it is good. Why need to try something that you might fail?
Now let us see how a positive person will reply:
Q: What is failure?
A: Failure is an experience which makes a person wiser
Q: What do you think about having a friend who has failed?
A: Not only have they become wiser but we became wiser because we can learn
from their mistake.
Q: Have you failed before?
A: Everyone would have faced failure at one point their life, so did I.
Q: What do you think about people who have failed before?
A: They failed because they tried something. They are courageous people because
they are daring enough to try and face the failure.
Q: In conclusion is failure good or bad?
A: If you don’t learn from your failure and face the same type of failure due to same reasons then it is bad. If you learn from your failures and improvise yourself then it is a step toward success. The sweetness and value of success is greater when it is laced with failures.
The questions are the same and the topic is the same but did you see the difference in their perception. Basically everything is in the mind. So which category are you in? That is for you to decide. Last but not least, I would like to say that “You are what you think you are and you will be what you perceive you will be”, so channel and traffic your mind wisely.
