** YOUR VIEW **

" WHAT DO YOU SEE YOURSELF AS WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE MIRROR? "

Many people worry what others see them as or what others think about them. Rarely people review what they think about themselves. Some understands and recovers the importance of their view half way their life; but some lives till their last day just worrying what others think about them rather than what they think about themselves.

"What does it matter what i think about myself? It doesn't change anything!"

This question might be rolling in your head now but trust me what you think about yourself does matter and it matters a lot. If you think it doesn't change anything well you are wrong, it does matter and you just need to see it in the right perspective.

If one sees himself as a total failure then he adapts the mind set that what ever he does, he will fail. A person who perceives himself as such will even fail doing an easy task. Why does this happen? Simply because he believed that he will fail and concentrated or worried more about failing then making the task a success.

Meanwhile compare the situation of a person who sees himself as a winner. Even if you hit him with the most hard task which people think it is impossible. He will work on it until he succeeds, not to prove to others but to prove to himself that he is a winner. He puts his mind on to the task with concentration to succeed in it, so he doesn't stop he has succeeded.

You can say that I'm crapping and this is not true, but many who has tried changing their own mindset on how they view themselves has seen the result. It is not about just saying that I see myself in a positive light. You must believe in it and act accordingly then only you will see the effect. I'm not telling the impact is instant but it does occur but depends on your confidence on what you perceive yourself as and your acts as well. If you don't trust just give it a try but make sure you try it with full confidence and wait patiently for the results, sometimes you won't notice the difference until others point it out to you. Just try it, if it doesn't work it did not cost you a thing but if it works for you than you just changed how your whole life will be.

Lastly if you think and see yourself as a failure, a failure you will be. If you see yourself as a winner then a winner you will be.

!!!! FAILURES !!!!!

What are failures? Why people are so prejudice towards failures?

Many people look at failure with a prejudice in their mind. Human has the tentativeness to look at things negatively rather than positively; due to this fact failure has became a taboo word for many. Let us see how a negative person will see failure and how a positive person will see failure.

Let us see how a negative person will answer the questions regarding failure:

Q: What is failure?
A: Failure is a word of taboo.

Q: What do you think about having a friend who has failed?
A: If you are near any person who failed you will fail to.

Q: Have you failed before?
A: I have never failed. Failure? Me? Oh no.

Q: What do you think about people who have failed before?
A: They are lazy. / They are not clever enough. / They are very unlucky, very bad
omen.

Q: In conclusion is failure good or bad?
A: Of course it is bad. No doubt of it. Only failures say it is good. Why need to try something that you might fail?

Now let us see how a positive person will reply:


Q: What is failure?
A: Failure is an experience which makes a person wiser

Q: What do you think about having a friend who has failed?
A: Not only have they become wiser but we became wiser because we can learn
from their mistake.

Q: Have you failed before?
A: Everyone would have faced failure at one point their life, so did I.

Q: What do you think about people who have failed before?
A: They failed because they tried something. They are courageous people because
they are daring enough to try and face the failure.

Q: In conclusion is failure good or bad?
A: If you don’t learn from your failure and face the same type of failure due to same reasons then it is bad. If you learn from your failures and improvise yourself then it is a step toward success. The sweetness and value of success is greater when it is laced with failures.

The questions are the same and the topic is the same but did you see the difference in their perception. Basically everything is in the mind. So which category are you in? That is for you to decide. Last but not least, I would like to say that “You are what you think you are and you will be what you perceive you will be”, so channel and traffic your mind wisely.