" WHAT DO YOU SEE YOURSELF AS WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE MIRROR? "
Many people worry what others see them as or what others think about them. Rarely people review what they think about themselves. Some understands and recovers the importance of their view half way their life; but some lives till their last day just worrying what others think about them rather than what they think about themselves.
"What does it matter what i think about myself? It doesn't change anything!"
This question might be rolling in your head now but trust me what you think about yourself does matter and it matters a lot. If you think it doesn't change anything well you are wrong, it does matter and you just need to see it in the right perspective.
If one sees himself as a total failure then he adapts the mind set that what ever he does, he will fail. A person who perceives himself as such will even fail doing an easy task. Why does this happen? Simply because he believed that he will fail and concentrated or worried more about failing then making the task a success.
Meanwhile compare the situation of a person who sees himself as a winner. Even if you hit him with the most hard task which people think it is impossible. He will work on it until he succeeds, not to prove to others but to prove to himself that he is a winner. He puts his mind on to the task with concentration to succeed in it, so he doesn't stop he has succeeded.
You can say that I'm crapping and this is not true, but many who has tried changing their own mindset on how they view themselves has seen the result. It is not about just saying that I see myself in a positive light. You must believe in it and act accordingly then only you will see the effect. I'm not telling the impact is instant but it does occur but depends on your confidence on what you perceive yourself as and your acts as well. If you don't trust just give it a try but make sure you try it with full confidence and wait patiently for the results, sometimes you won't notice the difference until others point it out to you. Just try it, if it doesn't work it did not cost you a thing but if it works for you than you just changed how your whole life will be.
Lastly if you think and see yourself as a failure, a failure you will be. If you see yourself as a winner then a winner you will be.
2 comments:
" Lastly if you think and see yourself as a failure, a failure you will be. If you see yourself as a winner then a winner you will be " i dont agree with this sentences....
When we learn from our failures in life, we turn those weak areas into "hardened" points of strength. We develop abilities that we never would have developed; we achieve later successes that we never would have achieved.
The difference between failure and success is largely a matter of how we view those experiences .Today's failures can often become tomorrow's success.
We must always guard ourselves against getting mired in the pit of yesterday's failures. When we objective look at our failures, we often find they can become major steps on our road to success.
True that failures is actually learnings in life, i agree with you. but what i meant with failure there doesn't refer to pitfalls but the mind set. A person who sets his mind as a failure will look at every pit fall negatively and learn nothing but a person who views himself as a winner looks at failures/pitfalls as a learning opportunity.
Basically I'm talking about the mind set and you are indicating about the events. But of course both of us are in the right mind set about failures at this moment.
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